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When you love someone! Lighthouse of Inspiration!

Have you been the one that shares your heart and soul with no restriction, just to have it seemingly shoved back in your face? Have you done everything possible and been kind, thoughtful, supportive, just to be thrown aside?

Some people aren’t at all used to receiving love. They can’t possibly receive it.. Perhaps because they don’t feel loveable or they don’t realize the beautiful souls that they are. I could be wrong but I recently met a person whom this pertains to. What a growth curve for me. Don’t get me wrong… I have actually realized, that I have had some atonement to make for my own karmic behavior and having someone not accept your love, or even open up about their love for you has been incredibly painful. Lessons learned. Very hard lessons. I responded in absolute anger… I think I hurt myself worse than anyone else which is usually the case when acting out is involved. Definitely not as I normally would have. That poor soul. My poor soul. Sighs.

Know that you are loveable whether you are used to hearing it or not. Know that, when love was shown… The reason discomfort or fear happened is because the love you were connecting with was from Divine Source itself. Know that this kind of love is how I view you and how Divine Source views you. I hope at some point you can open your heart chakra enough to let yourself accept this type of love. It truly is the best and purest type there is.

The Tower definitely fell today my friends but I have to tell you, I have zero regret for showing such incredible love to another. I have no regret for the anger that I showed either… The opposite of love is indifference. If someone is angry, please know that the amount of passion that goes along with that anger can only come from a very deep seeded love. Otherwise not one single **** Would have been given. Lol. Just Sayin. You continue to be my lighthouse of inspiration. Scotish people. Geeeez Louise!

~Guiding Halo~

Are you awakening? Respect the journey!

Awakening is never done. It is continued, layer after layer. You can’t get it perfect and you will never finish because there is always a new layer or level of awakening that you will come to. Remember, we are all in this journey together. Let’s respect each others journey as we all give up ego and let spirit shine through.โค๐ŸŽถ

~Guiding Halo~

When you finally…..



Three of the best words you could ever usher out of your mouth. Do you know why? Because as soon as you truly feel that way and actually give up, you get out of the universes way which in turn, gets you out of your own way. The universe can not bring blessings to your life “IF” you have too much resistance in the way of what you are asking for.

Universal blessings are there for everyone and anyone. You ask and the universe answers. When you say….with an attitude of excitement or absolute knowing,,,,I want x,y,z. The universe answers yes. The universe only knows the answer yes. When you ask with a desire of longing and dread…the universe gives you more to long for and be dreadful of. I love knowing this because without knowing it, I can’t change the way I think.ย 

Have you ever noticed that a lot of your biggest desires come on the heals of feeling down and like it is never going to happen for you? Perhaps it’s because in giving up you actually lose resistance to what you are actually asking for?

Resistance Explained.

  • the act or power of resisting, opposing, or withstanding.
  • the opposition offered by one thing, force, etc., to another.
  • Electricity.
    1. Also called ohmic resistance.a property of a conductor by virtue of which the passage of current is opposed, causing electric energy to be transformed into heat: equal to the voltage across the conductor divided by the current flowing in the conductor: By: Dictionary.com.

ย “The passage of current is opposed.”

You see…even though you are asking for love, or money or clarity, if your current is that of the opposite that is what you will get. Is the opposite of what you are wanting. It’s like this.ย  You want to have a heart to match yours but if you are putting out a black heart a mirror can only show you a black heart. Even if what you are looking at is actually a beautiful red heart. You will see in someone else what you don’t like in yourself. Always. You will see in someone else what you love in yourself always. A mirror does not lie. It will always show you what is there. You can not change what you see in the mirror by reaching into the mirror and changing the shape or color. You can only change what is inside your image first. When you look in a mirror you are mirroring yourself and your own energy. It is the same when you ask the universe for anything. It mirrors your vibration. You have to work on yourself in order to bring the beauty in which you seek into your life.ย  Your desire…passage of current is apposed to what you are wanting. The beauty which you seek can not be projected into the mirror. Therefore you will not find it.

When you want to bring something into your existence that in your minds eye, you perceive as wonderful,ย  don’t go by the mirror image, that you see in the mirror. Get connected to source. Then and only then, do you ask for the specifics of what you desire. When your inner being is projecting beauty and you ask for the beauty that is being projected that is when you will call in all of the beauty you seek. Remember that phrase, be careful what you ask for? I think it would be incredibly productive to think of it as to be careful when you ask for. Always be mindful of the vibration that you have when asking the universe for anything. Because I have learned from experience, that the universe will match your vibration. Every single time.

Go ahead…give up and let the universe have control. Seriously…watch how amazing your life becomes in just the idea that there is a universe or something out there that has your back.

We would all never worry about anything ever again if we remember who walks beside us every day.

~Wayne Dyer~




Anger Can Be Our teacher.

When one feels angry about life and what is going on we tend to internalize all of our faults. I believe that anger at people is actually a mirror of why we are angry at ourselves. Maybe it is that being angry fuels a start to a journey within that helps us work through the quagmire of difficult terrain within our hearts.

On the onset it can make one appear ugly and tormented to those around the angered person, but the reality of anger is that the person is working through some of the most difficult terrain in their heart that perhaps they have ever had to work through. I think that anger is the catalyst that brings forth change. That moment when a person stands up and says NO MORE…is the moment that anger has found a route for change. Sometimes we as people take way too much torment…day after day…we let it build up and then hold the anger all inside. We work through these thoughts and feelings alone much to the dismay of our friends and family.ย 

We may say that we HATE. We may say that we CAN’T STAND it anymore. But we still hold it all in and don’t let the pain out until it erupts like a volcano. While you will have psychologists and people with fancy titles saying that this is not healthy, I would like to challenge that theory. Who are they to say what is healthy. Yes there might be better ways in their opinion for people to process their emotions but the reality of things is that some people are wired differently and need that build up of intensity to help them stand up for themselves. To help them get to the point of choosing honesty over pain and fear. Their pain is so deep that they no longer fear what anyone will say or think. They just need the pain to end.

I think these people much like myself are people pleasers.ย  They don’t want to hurt other people by saying what is on their mind. They probably feel guilt themselves for even feeling the way that they do. They feel like they are less of a person for not being the bigger person in the situation when that little 2-year-old inside of them is having a massive temper tantrum and screaming at the top of their lungs…IT ISN’T FAIR.!.!.ย  When in reality they chose this life, moment after moment. Decision after decision. One compiled on top of another. Not knowing how to get out of it or if they even can. So they end up living a tortured existence until something breaks and they decide to take a way out.

The reality is, that way out has been there all along. But it took them getting to a certain place of anger to actually line up with their decision vibrationally. I am speaking of the law of attraction here. When we have lost all resistance to the outcome of a situation that is when we can take a stand and all of a sudden feel great about our choice. Because we have lined up with our feelings and nothing else matters. We have to let them out regardless of whatever comes next. That is lining up with our choices. I have always used the comment that

“Courage is not absence of fear but rather the judgement that something else is more important than fear.”

Eleanor Roosevelt

So in that moment we exude courage. So is courage a bad thing? Heck no courage is not a bad thing. Then how can anger be a bad thing that destroys us if it leads us to taking a leap of courage. It would stand to reason that it would be easier to have courage instead of anger…but in reality that is a lifetime journey that is cultivated one step at a time. To live in courage instead of fear and anger. Yes absolutely we should all strive for it…but I can tell you this…honoring your anger will bring you to courage eventually. So when you feel angry be thankful for the emotion itself.ย  Be thankful because you must know that courage soon will follow. So be strong tonight…and remember who you are.